Monthly Archives: January 2025

Losing Friends and Family Due to Politics..

Ok, so maybe this doesn’t have much to do with the topic but, I do love this song.

The topic is, sadly, familiar to many people these days, whether heated arguments over political party, gender, sexuality, religion, gun laws or abortion caused the rift, family and friends are seeing relationships torn asunder.

I’m not giving a lecture on how to fix this, I’m suffering through the same ostracism whether self inflicted or “other” inflicted. I still love or am fond of the relationships I had with these people and I do grieve the loss but, for good or bad, I will not give up my convictions, nor will they and so we parted.

The rampant destruction of relationships due to viewpoints, isn’t new. Is it even as widespread as it appears or is it social media that allows light to be shed on the topic? The answer to this is the purview of those far more educated in the psychology of relationships than am I.

Most of us have strong convictions, mine have fluctuated with life experience; what was black and white to me, say – 20 years ago, is not so clear and defined now. You live, you learn. An often overused axiom but its truth is quite evident to me.

I am sorry for the loss of the relationship but I can’t overlook chasms of conviction. I believe in equal rights for all, I believe in gun laws – laws, not bans but common sense laws. I believe gender is none of my business, I don’t live the the body of another and I can’t imagine the heartbreak of being forced into a role that is foreign to me. I believe a woman’s body, is inviolate to the opinions of others, of religion or political stance. I believe skin colour is simply biology, and has nothing to do with worth, criminality (some the most despicable despots in history were, in fact, white), if someone braves a long journey, away from home and family, there is a reason and they deserve to be heard, not locked up or shipped to an island (read – Guantanamo concentration camp).

Just a little rant here; we are ALL immigrants to Canada and the U.S. with the exception of aboriginals. The majority of ancestors arrived, fleeing starvation, imprisonment, subjugation; the same reason people are fleeing to our countries but that’s not a legitimate reason now? Go take a long walk off a short pier.

All I have to say, is that you aren’t alone. A lot of us have lost family and friends. Grieve but move on. Don’t compromise your beliefs because they are uncomfortable. Resist, stand by your ethics, your morals, your social conscience.

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Leisure Time

Well, I retired almost a month ago and I’m still navigating this “leisure time” concept. Definitely not used to it, worked all my life, raised a passel of kids, looked after aging parents…now, there is only my husband and myself, in our home – oh yeah, 2 budgies and a tarantula.

I know what I need to do;

  1. Work on my novel and an anthology I have been creating.
  2. Blogging, I used to love it but life got in the way, hoping to make up for lost time.
  3. Gaming – I love to game, since the early days of Leisure Suit Larry, Gold Rush and Warcraft. RPGs are my deal, I’m currently back to Skyrim and the new season of Diablo IV.
  4. READING, I love books; my eyesight sucks so I use audio books now. I do manage to go through far more because I plug in my Skullcandy ear buds and I can listen while being productive (housework/cooking etc.)
  5. Travel, uniquely to Cuba; we love the country, the courage and integrity of the people, the history and culture.
Daily writing prompt
What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time?

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Need a Break

Don’t know about anyone else but man, I need a break from the absolute rage-inducing poop-show, inundating the world, right now.

This video was created by a friend of my husband’s, with the intent to raise money for the Montréal Children’s hospital. The guys are all from the Pointe-Claire Old Timers hockey association; they hold all sorts of events during the year and profits go to various charities.

My husband is one of the goalies featured in the video. (Yay Hubby!) We are a hockey family, all our boys played, hubby and our middle son are goalies, our eldest and youngest were defencemen. I was an assistant coach and a manager, at various times over the years.

Grab a coffee and take a minute; for the love of the game, and some smiles/chuckles.

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Welcome to the New World; Nazism 2.0

I understand Tristan’s sentiments and his belief that arrests cannot be made without warrant but it is happening. There will be no recourse in a court of law. No such thing as “Innocent until proven guilty”.

Justice? 1500 violent and treasonous, convicted criminals were just pardoned and are out on the streets, as far as I know, with their right to bear arms, even if they have lost that right – I am not up on U.S. gun laws (Are there any? Really? I don’t think so.) Men and women with, absolutely, no respect for the rule of law, armed and ready to fight for their…whatever he is.

Let us not forget that the man holding the most powerful seat in government is, himself a convicted felon. His nominations for some of the other powerful seats within the American system just defy logical thinking; a man who is an unabashed conspiracy theorist who believes he had or still has a brain worm…Robert F. Kennedy Jr. nominated to be the next secretary of Health and Human Services. Let that one sink in, truly sink in.

Secretary of Defense nominee? Peter Hegseth, accused of being an alcoholic, molesting, wife beater.

A trail of documents, corroborated by the accounts of former colleagues, indicates that Hegseth was forced to step down by both of the two nonprofit advocacy groups that he ran—Veterans for Freedom and Concerned Veterans for America—in the face of serious allegations of financial mismanagement, sexual impropriety, and personal misconduct.

There is far more on this guy; see the link below and prepare for outrage and disgust.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pete_Hegseth

I understand that the American school system has been suffering and under fire for decades. And the end result is, generations of citizens who do not understand the absolute danger faced by the country. The rule of law no longer applies unless it benefits the GOP and its allies. Justice is simply 7 letters strung together, at this point.

The disaster that is the United States of America, currently, will only worsen. These people do not discuss. We all saw that on Jan. 6th/2024 and we saw it in Charlotteville, NC…we hear it in the opinions of the Magats (and no, I will not refer to them as Republicans because they are not – they use the label but you can slap gold paint on a turd but it remains a turd.)

I am old enough to remember the civil unrest of the 70’s, seeing it on television, meeting conscientious objectors in my city and other Canadian cities. To this day, I do not understand the reason for all those American kids losing their lives and taking the lives of Vietnamese. (There was none.)

I wish I could see into the future, I wish the future looked positive for the U.S. but it doesn’t. News media, social media have been compromised. The entire world is pointing, laughing and snorting in disgust at how far the U.S. has fallen. The president (not capitalizing – he doesn’t deserve it), is THREATENING allies. Canada, Denmark, Panama – he has his eye on Cuba; he has come out and said, he is looking to expand American territory. So, did Putin and that is not going the way either Putin or his pocket monkey, Trump thought it would. Same goes for Canada. For Denmark. For Panama. Cuba, I’m afraid, will fall victim to expansionism, they simply don’t have the resources to fight, unless China steps in.

Unless there is confrontation, and I’m afraid it would have to be violent as that is the only thing that administration and its flunkies understand, the U.S. is on the way to being Nazi-Germany 2.0 or considering Trumps love affair with Vlad? Perhaps Stalinism American style.

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Musk – He’s Dangerous…and INSANE IMO.

More news and I don’t care, I’m taking this down a rabbit (rat hole). Neurolink…chips in the brain, funded/orchestrated by a man, with exploding cars and rockets. A man whom, in front of the entire world, Zeig Heils….And HE arranging for the insertion of brain chips. Think about it. BRAIN CHIPS!

https://apnews.com/article/elon-musk-neuralink-brain-computer-interface-9dbc92206389f27fd032825cf1597ee5

Because, at this point, there is no limit, in my mind, as to how far down, Trump/Musk and their handmaidens will go, how does this play? Detainees, ripped from family and friends, in detention camps, offered a deal, “Hey, we’ll give you citizenship, if you agree to have a brain implant and sign this here N.D.A. What do you say?”

In addition? The migrants, the refugees currently working fields and in underpaid, unsecured jobs, no one else wants? How much do you want to bet that this pseudo-government turns around and tells unemployed, disabled, veterans on benefits that the work is there so they can fill the spots because benefit are ceasing.

Oh I’m not on a Canadian high horse; we have, at least two politicians that immediately come to mind, who are so up Trump’s ass, they may as well be the hemorrhoids they resemble; Pierre Poilievre and Danielle Smith. Things are looking grim all over.

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I need the prompt…

Daily writing prompt
List five things you do for fun.

5 Things I Do For Fun?

  1. Gaming – PS5; my deal are RPGs. I avoid MORPGs; my patience doesn’t permit it, anymore. My games are Skyrim, Diablo IV (one of the few MORPGs I play), Neverwinter, The Witcher; Wild Hunt and a few others.
  2. Spending time with my family – especially “game” night; Cards Against Humanity, Trivial Pursuit and Tok (I think the last one is unique to Québec).
  3. Cuba; we travel to Cuba – fun and also to help out the folks in that country, suffering under American attacks on their autonomy/sovereignty.
  4. Writing – I write, currently working on an anthology (F) and a novel (SF), that I may get around to finishing…one day.
  5. Reading, audio books now; my eyesight sucks.

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It’s Been A Minute

I don’t really see a point to repeating something that has been expressed, far more eloquently than I could have managed.

Take a read: It’s time to rebuild

This is a rebuild, I have deleted most of my old posts and starting, more or less, fresh. I have kept a few that were important to me, but all the rest have been trashed. Time to move forward.

I’ve retired, officially. Haven’t quite managed to wrap my head around the implications.  In fact, the other day, I rolled out of bed, grabbed a coffee and sat down in my office, (I have worked from home since 2019), to begin my day.  😳

I’ll figure it out, eventually; in the meantime, I am catching up on politics, general news and it is, quite frankly, terrifying.

We have the Oligarch Felon, elected and threatening us from the south and an actual Oligarch to the north, pulling his strings.  (I am, obviously, referring to the Orange Baboon Trump and the despot Putin.) 

We don’t seem to….let’s be frank and crude here, we don’t seem to have any politicians up here, with the balls to tell the felon where to stick his mini-mushroom.  Worries me greatly.  History is repeating itself.  Think Germany and WWII. 

Let’s see; I deactivate FB/Instagram and Threads.  I deleted Twitter when that Nazi bought it.  I use BlueSky exclusively now.  It does have a small learning curve and you will need to maintain your personal algorithm by muting/blocking undesirables (Magats and Maple Magats), they have invaded. I can only assume that since the mass migration from the dead bird app, they had no one to troll, save each other.   

 So to summarize;

  • Supporter of Ukraine.
  • I am left of center.
  • I am an Ally.
  • No patience for Republicans or the pseudo-Republicans (Up here, they masquerade as Progressive Conservatives).
  • Feminist
  • Pro-Choice
  • My religious/spiritual beliefs are like my toilet habits; kept to myself and in my own home.

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